Because the tree is sacred to your people and you are special to me, I think of you Mama Filda, as the Lady of the Shea Tree.
So much that the tree gives; so much you have given us. As the Acholi give thanks for moisturiser, soap and cooking oil; we give thanks to you, for the lessons in patience, strength and empathy.
I've never been forced away, running from home. How you must have missed the camaraderie of collection, the laughter of shelling; communal satisfaction, as plant becomes butter. And with the earnings from shea, the mothers sent their children daily to school. Or dancing at the celebration of new life; dance of duet, ululating for the twins, after the blessing from shea oil. And the king who cannot take the title, till the shea anointing.
From Uganda to England; homeland terror to asylum creativity: BK LUWO. So women still gathered - coming from Africa, Caribbean and Asia – working together at their crafts; knitting, crochet and sewing. In their needlework activism, making clothes, cushions, bags and blankets, they raised money to keep the project self-funded, while combating the shrouds of loneliness. Women spoke of each others culture, enhanced their knowledge of English and learnt IT skills. In this age of gargantuan tech, bittersweet; twice a week in the East Oxford Community Centre, the women would meet, giving thanks for the simplicity of the sewing machine.
It's always good to see you Mama Filda. I know there is wisdom embedded in your eyes; I know I get a blessing, whenever I receive a smile from you. As you approach your ninth decade, there is the deepest respect for you. Not only the fruit that carries the genus Vitellaria hangs from you; like the Coomacka tree of Guyanese Carib folklore, bearer of multiple species of fruits, you produce one known as Inspiration, another called Role Model; and every branch of you chants Heritage.
The shea tree gives food, medicine, economic lifeline. Since the official founding of BK LUWO, in 2003, you have given us lessons in postivity, implementation and perseverance.
Because the tree is sacred to your people and you are special to me, I think of you Mama Filda, as the Lady of the Shea Tree.