As usual, monsieur Mike Leigh delivers a great film. It is not necessarily pleasant to see at times as some of the situations are so close to home somehow: a family funeral, embarrassing moments with friends (wether you are the one sleeping on the sofa or the one saying "f...!" seeing her...). I found it very British also. A "must see", as they say.
Philip French’s Guardian review of this film is excellent and gets the point that other reviewers seem to have missed, i.e. that Tom and Geri are actually happy together living quietly in the midst of the increasingly materialist, lonely world that is modern Britain.
Rather than smug, I think Mike Leigh’s couple are a haven of calm and quiet acceptance and that’s why they attract the troubled characters who crowd in to be with them – Geri’s friend Mary, Tom’s friend Ken and Tom’s widowed brother (abused by his dreadful son). The scene with the middle-aged woman at the beginning of the film makes the point – sent to Geri for counselling by her GP because she suffers from chronic insomnia, she can’t see that her malady might have something to do with her bleak life. ‘Just give me something to make me sleep’, she demands. The modern answer is so often to look for the quick fix.
Tom and Geri certainly don’t confront their friends. However, their gentle acceptance of these misfits in their lives shows tolerance and willingness to just be there for them. For no friend can ever seriously be a counsellor, too, and people have to make their own decisions to change their lives. No amount of telling ever works.
The film revolves around the seasons at Tom and Geri’s allotment. Here we see the metaphor: life as grounded reality in the face of hopes, dreams and inevitable failures. Life is hard, sometimes tragic, and committing to a long term relationship is no easy task. However, there are some warm moments: the sense of enduring love we get from Tom and Geri’s relationship; their caring son and his light-hearted girlfriend and the sudden glimmer of light when Tom’s widowed brother refers to his music festival, pot smoking youth.